Tuesday, May 12, 2009

An open letter

This is an open letter to Isabelle, Max and Keely. For the past few days, the Holy Spirit has been urging me to write you tell you not only that I love you but that I am so proud of you all. From the beginning of this journey that started a few years ago until now, you guys have given yourselves to God’s calling on our family to rescue Maks, Alona and Natasha.

Keely, I remember how excited and supportive you were for the Compton’s and Botto’s adoption plans a few years ago. How we went to Leah’s home coming party at EBC and on the way home you asked if we could adopt a baby like that someday. (I think my response was something like “we’ll see”.) Interesting how God works through innocent children to speak to our hearts!

As the last few years have gone by, I remember you (Isabelle, Max and Keely) praying for other families that we knew where adopting; the Duty’s, and the Vandermeer’s to name a few. How proud I am that you lifted your prayers up to God for these families and others.

When the invitation to look into a summer hosting program came to us, I remember how excited you all were of the possibility to share our home with child for the summer. I remember you guys praying over the list with us asking God to reveal His choice for our family. I remember the excitement in our faces when we learned that Sabina would be coming to stay with us. I remember the letters you wrote, the pictures you drew and the gifts you sent telling her all about our family and how excited you all were to meet her. I remember how you prayed for her nightly. I remember your excitement in sharing with others that Sabina would be coming. I remember the urging to adopt her and my response of “we’ll see”.

I also remember the sadness when we learned that Sabina couldn’t come being replaced with joy in the news that we would be able to host Maks and Alona. I remember the letters that were quickly written, the pictures that were drawn, and the gifts that were sent. I remember the preparations that you all made to get ready for their stay. I remember the prayers that you lifted up.

I remember how welcoming you were to Maks and Alona when they arrived. I remember the friendships you made during their visit. I remember the sacrifices you made along the way; not watching the TV programs you wanted, not sitting in the car where you wanted, not going places when you wanted, not being able to go to sleep when you wanted because you were sharing your room, not being able to sit at the dinner table where you wanted (that still happens sometimes), and many more. All these things were sacrifices you did for someone else. I love you all for your giving spirit.

I remember how you continued to pray for them after they left. I remember how you asked if we could adopt them and your disappointment when we said that we didn’t think so. I remember the letters and pictures and gifts you continued to send them to show them you cared about them and loved them. I remember the joy on your faces when we told you that we had submitted to God’s calling on our family to rescue Maks, Alona, and Natasha! I remember the questions about so many of the details of their living with us. I remember the prayers for them night after night.

I remember saying good-bye to you in the driveway and again at school on Friday morning, April 24 not knowing when I would be home to hug and hold you. I remember every word we have spoke since I have been gone. I remember each of you for all the love you give me. I remember the sacrifice you have made to rescue Maks, Alona, and Natasha and love you for it.

Please always know that I love you and am so very proud of you. I can’t wait to get home and hold and hug you.

Love,

Dad

10 comments:

Jewelry Lady said...

Seriously David!!! You must quit this...my heart can't take anymore! Thank you again for letting us share this journey with you. It has been mind blowing! Be safe and enjoy your time there.
tam

beth said...

Wow! I love the way you are so open with your heart - not just with your children but with all of us! You know I've been inspired by you and Jenny, but now I am inspired by your children, too! Thank you for letting us not only see your love for them but the huge part they have played in this journey too, not just the being at home waiting for a new brother and 2 sisters but the prayer and prep they have put into it all along the way! What a testament to how God can use the youngest hearts to make a mighty move!
Beth

DeeDee said...

That was beautiful, and I agree with Tammy, you're going have to stop this heart-wrenching, tugging blogging ! No, it's so neat to see your heart and now the hearts of your children. They sure are amazing. What a wonderful testimony of two people who opened their hearts to the call from God and their children that have followed so willingly. Praying for you!

vandermeer said...

Yes David, I have to agree with the others...THIS HAS GOT TO STOP!! Of course, I am just kidding but this 40 something heart just cannot take it another day!!! How very touching today was. Thanks again for just sharing that with all of us. What a special letter for your children!! You are continuing to be an awesome testimony of what God is doing in you and your family. Praying for you and your family!!

Chris Graham said...

:-) special

Jennifer said...

GOSH!!!! sob sob sob!!!!
Keep it up the mush!!! Its cheeper than therapy!!
Jennifer O

Laurel said...

No, don't stop! We really love the opportunity get so much insight.
:-)
You guys are truly an amazing family. Can't wait for you to all be together again.

David and Jenny Borden said...

Keely says, "We are proud of you, and love you so much."
Max says, "That was really sincere to write that to us. We love you."
Izzy says, "I love you Dad even though you are on the other side of the world we can talk to you."
Jenny says, "Amen! Part of how we know that we know that all of this is so "right" is that because it is a family supported effort. There is not one person dragging the others along. I have NO doubts that the Lord has prepared the kids for this. They are strong." i love you! jenny

Laura said...

David, again i am so proud of you!!!All 6 of your children are so blessed to have you as their dad and Jenny as their mom. Keely, Max, and Izzy are who they are because of the example you and Jenny set for them, because of the expectations you have of them, because of the love you give them, because of the respect you give them, because of the limits you set for them, on and on i could go.... oh yeah, because of the wonderful influence of their Aunt Lolly too. Mom, Dad and I often talk about the way you and Jenny parent your children. The things we say are things such as how you both show your love for your kids and for each other, how you greet your children, play with your children, laugh with them, listen to them, etc. Your blogs have reminded me of how important it is to tell the people we love that we love them Not to just feel and show it but to also say it. Words are powerful!!! i love you David, Jenny, Keely, Maks, Alona, Max, Izzy, and Natasha!!

The Peery's said...

Amazing, absolutely amazing. My heart just bursts to think that this kind of fatherly love is now going to be poured into 3 more adorable kids who were bravely rescued by your family. What a blessing and inspiration you are!