Tuesday, May 5, 2009

Day 12 in Ukraine; Day 8 at the orphanage


Maks and David working on the bike
Our attemt to "Americanize" them with game boy and potato chips is not intentional!
David taught Maks the trick with the Pringles
The title has a certain dramatic effect, does it not? 12 days in the Ukraine?! Maybe it doesn't sound quite as long to you as it does to us. Right now, it is 10pm here and we have awoken (don't know why) after falling asleep watching the 6-hour mini-series, Pride & Predjudice (thank you Tonya). We watch the dvd on the computer which is propped up on 6 books between us on the bed. The 10" TV has a dvd player. We were quite excited about that until we realized the subtitles are turned on and the remote control to turn them off is long gone. Now, we are waiting for the kids at home to skype us. Don't have any earth-shattering news to bring you today, so thought we'd just offer you a current "day in the life". This is a bold request, but if you are reading, please leave us a comment. We crave to hear or see anything from home. We shamelessly check the blog, emails, facebook like 5 or 10 times a day at least.


8:30-David goes for a run. He was quite proud to make it TWO times around the square today. He figures at least 3 miles! He's already starting his training for next year's Flying Pig, and at this pace will be almost ready come next May. :)


9:00-I'm up checking every piece of computer communication we have, although it is 2am at home. David gets home and hops in the shower. Our little flat is a bedroom (think small), walk into the little sitting room (think real small) and shower is attached to that. So, I'm on Facebook reading around, and I hear silence in the shower after only 2 or so minutes. Then I hear a little screech, and it seems the water has stopped. David, cold and soaped up, is standing in the shower with no water. While we're chatting about it (me, casually and David, not so casually) the water comes back on but it freezing cold. So it happens again and again until he does manage to get all the soap and dirt off his body.


9:30-I'm not so lucky. We think we're not going to the orphanage today until 2, when the kids get home from school. So, I'm taking my time, working on my Bible study when there is a knock at the door. It is Anna telling me she's been to the Inspector's office for papers, and she has come back to get us. We need to go sign a paper. I quickly put on my dirty pair of jeans from yesterday (I only brought 2. Decided less clothes and more food in the suitcase served me well).


10:00-I hastily make my way outside, but we are now waiting on David. It seems he has lost the keys to our flat. He only went from our flat to the steps of the porch, but they are gone. We look and look and eventually he decides it best to open Tatiana's key door (THE Tatiana from Tatiana's Romantica where we are residing) and try all the keys until he can find the one which locks our door. Keep in mind it really makes no difference whether we lock or door or not. Every day Tatiana comes in our room and takes out the trash, does her laundry (as the washing machine is in "our" flat normally known as Tatiana and her husband's bedroom. Hilarious!!! It's always quite exciting to see what will be or not be in our room. She is very sweet. I wish I could talk to her. She is a grandmother and her sweet little granddaughter comes each day before school and "Papa" walks her to school. Poor Papa is sleeping in the office right now!


10:30-At the Inspector's office. David and I sit in the middle of a room with 5 desks surrounding us. There are 7 people standing around us talking at once. We are sitting in the middle of the room, where they asked us to sit, and looking around at them smiling. They don't smile very often. All the words for us to sign a small piece of paper saying the Inspector filled out paperwork for the case and it was taken to the Mayor. Something to do with paperwork, the Mayor, and picking it up.


11:00-We go to get a paper at the orphanage except their are two vans full of German people who have come to drop off LOTS of chocolate bunnies and things from Easter to the orphanage. Anna goes in and comes right back out. She doesn't like the German language, and cannot stand to be around them. So, we wait in the car. Hilarious again!! We did learn some history though about Germans and Ukrainians that was quite interesting. It seems about a dozen people from Germany drove here to drop off these things. We wondered why they didn't offer these gifts in Germany. Kostya, our driver, said that they don't have all the orphanages like the Ukraine and the government takes care of their orphans different than the Ukraine. So we wait a LONG time, not quite sure how long in the car. We've done lots of this in the past 12 days so we are prepared with books on hand.


12:30ish-The Germans have left so we are now free to enter the building without the disruption their language might cause. We go in to talk to the orphanage director with Anna. We ask some questions about other children that were hosted this summer and ask her some more questions about our kids. She is very gracious to answer all our questions. We also ask Anna to express how much we appreciate her because she was so good to us to send us notes from the kids and pictures and we know this doesn't happen normally. We tell her that we are grateful that she has cared for them and that we are going to do everything we can to show them love and believe they will be a beautiful part of our family. At this point, David has to hand tissues to Anna and me and one for him. It was a touching moment. Anna gets quite emotional tells us, "you break my heart." She says she has heard from many of the families that she has worked with and that the kids do wonderful. "All they need is a family, they need love," she says.


1:30-We spend the next 3 or so hours with the kids. It is nice today because we are able to go outside with them and spend time with just them. We brought a can of Pringles (extra cheese kind that we bought in the grocery store here). The kids loved that treat! It didn't take us long to eat the whole can especially since David and I hadn't eaten since our peanut butter tortilla in the morning. Our kids, on both continents, got to talk on the phone together. That was sweet. David and Maks worked to fix his bike. Did I tell you that he and one other boy have a bike in the orphanage? There are some definite favorites going on in there, and our three get to enjoy being three of the favorites. They do get some special treatment. We blew some balloons and played around with those. Natasha decided to go mess with three teenage girls who decided to come hang out in one of the covered areas of the orphanage. That girl is a spit-fire! Of course, we don't know what was said, but it seems Maks heard enough to walk over there and tell the girls a thing or two??!!


Okay, I know there are more hours in the day but if you are as bored reading this as I am recalling it, I'll spare us all the agony. Enjoy the pictures and THANK YOU for sharing in this experience with us.


Please pray the documents get here from Kiev that are needed for court on Thursday. They are supposed to sign off and put them on a bus or train or something tomorrow to get here tomorrow evening. My plane ticket is purchased and my bags are almost packed. Love, Jenny and David

16 comments:

Laurel said...

Hi Jenny - loved the update. It's never boring. We are so glad to hear your kids were receiving "special treatment". We're praying for that paperwork to arrive on time tomorrow. Ilona seemed very positive about it today and not worried, so hopefully you feel the same way. Enjoy your blessings and knowledge that in less than a week you'll be back to your warm, dependable shower. Sorry, David, can't say the same for you! LOL. :-)

GilmoreFamily said...

Hi guys - although retelling your day may seem long or boring to you - it's very interesting on this end. It allows us a snapshot of what life is for these kids. Even in it all I'm still left with this sense of peace in the simplicity of some of what you are dealing with...sitting for hours in a car reading a book, on a park bench, watching a 6-hour mini-series on a makeshift TV in the middle of your bed...although I'm sure you are so anxious to keep things moving so you can bring your entire family together - there may not be many moments ahead that you will move at such a slow, simple pace.

Thinking of you often...

~Toni

Chris Graham said...

I'm always a fan of "tell me everything!" And..."I'll tell you mine, if you tell me yours!" Thanks guys! I usually try to save your blog for the middle of the night, but I'm glad I peeked early. Sent "mine" in a private message on facebook. Love you! Chris

Kimbell and Mark said...

Oh just reading your day - brings back memories - it seems so long ago. It's crazy to think I was there less than a week ago. And I haven't had a minute to just sit and ponder what to eat, should I use lip gloss... I'll email you all the details. Love you, miss you.... see you soon. let's start planning where we are going to go and what we will order.... i'm kind of thinking first watch in crestview.

vandermeer said...

Hey guys! We love reading your updates and any story you provide--they are always so touching and fun to read!! Jenny--you are on the count down now to coming home!! Just hang on a few more days. We will pray about your paperwork that it arrives on time and everything continues to go so smoothly. Sorry about your shower there David!! That is too funny to read about---I am sure not funny to you! We live to hear your updates!

Jennifer said...

OHHHH I feel guilty all the times I read and don't comment for you!! So sorry. My day and events seem so boring compared to the excitement you tell of.

Jennifer

The Riekerts said...

Girlfriend (and David), Hang in there! While the description of your day is not so stimulating, your ADVENTURE is!! I so appreciate your candor, your eating of peanut butter on pita bread, your desire to love on and share the photos and the life and times with these kiddos. You are so obviously rescuing these children and while it's not going to be pretty or easy day today, they'll be HOME. They'll have a family and YOU have inspired ANYONE who is reading about your sacrifices. Prayers for you---Kristen

DeeDee said...

Hey guys -- Great update !! Love hearing the hour by hour -- it makes us feel so much a part of your time over there and like Carol said we really do live for your updates. :)We loved the pics -- especially the pringle duck mouths. You will have so many neat and fun things to do with them and teach them. I think that is so awesome that your kids here at home got to talk to the kids over there, that's so neat. I know that you are so anxious to get home and we are so anxious to have you here and have your whole family together. Thank you for sharing and giving us the littlest of details - they help us to understand and give us "pictures" in our minds of what your life is like. We're thinking about you today and lifting you upward to God in our prayers !

Phil & Tonya said...

Whew! What a relief! It is always a precious privilege to read everything you write, but the depth of the last few posts has been difficult to recover from -- hard to derive humor for you in.... Take me back to Pringles anyday. :) Enjoy your peanut butter tortillas -- are you losing any weight yet? I know that was a minor perk you were vaguely thinking of. I would like a chipotle date next week, please. We didn't get to celebrate Cinqua de Maya (sp?). Love you guys!

michelle said...

I am enjoying your updates so much.
Kind of fun to see how things are
going at the orphanage and see where the kids we hosted came from and how they really live...Sounds pretty good but as always lack of the one on one lovey touchy feely
thing we all crave. So nice of you guys to share yourselves when you can. I guess the only positive thing I can say to David is...at least it is not the dead of winter
there and getting a really cold rinse. Burrr...We are anxious to hear about the successful transport of paperwork. God bless

Mike Bishop said...

Hey Jenny And David!! Mike and I are anxious every day to read your posts!! He is home tonight, but leaves tomorrow. You did celebrate Cinco de Mayo with your Peanut Butter "Tortilla"!!! Mike and I went to Moe's today and talked about how we wished ya'll were there with us!! Oh yeah... Mike said that "Maverick" Tom Cruise called and wants his sunglasses back from the '80's :) lol. Is there NO Mountain Dew in the Ukraine?? What kind of marketing is that to have M&M's and pringles, but no Dew?? For a coming home gift - Mike has installed a new shower head at your house with a sporadic flowmeter and your hot water heater has been removed!!! Thought you could use some "funnies" :) I cannot believe it has been 12 days! We love ya'll.. and ya'll are stirring up some emotions in us! See you tomorrow - Keep singing JJ!! Leslie & Mike

tscox said...

Jenny & David-

Your last two posts covered two of the subjects that actually made me cry when we were there! I didn't really cry during all of our various complications, but actually did when we had freezing green water and a freezing cold apartment in Kiev, and a couple of times when we had no water or cold water at Tatianna's. (Talk to her when it's cold because she can flip a switch or something and make it hot again... When there's no water, I think you're just out of luck! But, come to think of it, a couple of buckets of water did magically appear in our bathroom one time when the water was off for a whole day... Tatianna is a sweet lady!) I also felt a deep heartache when leaving the orphanage for the last time and couldn't hold back the tears. Had it not been for Sergei being so happy and bouncy and excited to be leaving, I would have simply wept. It was very hard to leave the kids in Sergei's group after being with them for so long and not knowing what would become of them... I wanted to sneak at least 6 or 7 of them home in our suitcases! They do crave love and attention and just praying for them and loving on them when you can makes an impression on them and a difference...
Praying for timely paperwork and a wonderfully fast and easy court experience for you!
Tim & Sharon

beth said...

This was one of my favorites (I'll make a top 10 for you one day). I think it's because I could just imagine us sitting at Chipotle (or Panera...or Moe's) and you sharing all of this - it's in the details, girl! Anyway, it was fun to read! AND so glad David has started training for the Pig. I missed going and cheering him on this year (and going to Dewey's to celebrate!)
Love ya!

adopting2fromUkraine said...
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adopting2fromUkraine said...

The fewer clothes you bring, the fewer you have to re-pack and keep up with;)

You may think these recollections are boring now, but you'll be glad one day that you wrote it all down. It is so easily forgotten later.

Best wishes for court tomorrow,
June

(I made a mistake on the above comment. Sorry.)

The Holloways said...

My favorite picture thus far is the one of Jenny and Maks with the Pringles duck bill. Very sweet. We will all be praying you through court tomorrow!